Distance never separates two hearts that really care

We are living in a superficial world, where we pretend to care, show affection, smile and share moments. These are just ways to be socially involved. We make friends and forget them easily. How many of us really make an effort to stay connected? How many of us really value the moments of fun and laughter? How many of us want to relive those moments? I wonder how convenient it is for us to make friends, promise to be friends for life and then just turn around when our friend really needs us. Not many are considerate.

Distance screws it up for many. I don’t get the idea though..If you love someone, if you care for someone, if you miss that person, how can you forget to be in touch? Or how can you let those emotions die? People break up because they can’t meet each other daily, they can’t talk frequently.. Is it a valid reason, I ask? What about email, chatting, voice chatting, telephone.. we have every got damn possible thing, provided we really want to talk and connect despite the distance. Excuses don’t work every time!!!

Friends part.. why, distance! Hell with this distance man.. Why can’t people accept the fact that they don’t want to talk, why can’t they be upfront to say what is required than hiding behind the bush and blame it on distance, schedule, work, family and what not..!!!

We have always learnt from our childhood about “honesty is the best policy”. Where has it gone? Have we forgotten about the values? Or are we trying to be diplomatic and lead a contemporary style of living? This is such hypocrisy, we hate it when it happens to us but we love practicing it for our own selfish interest. I am amazed to look around how we have all changed over the years. We always miss our school days, we miss the innocence, we miss the craziness, we miss our straight forward attitude but when we can implement even now, we fail or we refrain. Why???

Is it wrong to be what you are? Why can’t we just live a simple life where we keep no qualms for our loved ones and be honest to any relation we make? I sometimes feel, I will keep hurting myself by being too attached to people, however, it gives me immense happiness to be with my loved ones and relive and cherish each moment spent with them. When I say, I am your friend for life; I truly mean and will live by it.